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con/ ông

A2 Common Southern Vietnamese 309 views

Pronoun pair — required politeness in family/respect contexts.

Definition

What it means

English

In Southern Vietnamese, "con" is used by children and young people to refer to themselves when speaking to elders (like grandparents, parents, or older respected people). "Ông" is a respectful way to address an older man. Think of it like saying "sir" or "grandfather" in English, but it can be used for any older man you don't know well.

Tiếng Việt

Trong tiếng Việt Nam miền Nam, "con" được dùng bởi trẻ em và người trẻ để xưng hô khi nói chuyện với người lớn tuổi (như ông bà, cha mẹ hoặc người lớn đáng kính). "Ông" là cách xưng hô lịch sự với người đàn ông lớn tuổi. Tương tự như "ông", "bà" là cách xưng hô lịch sự với phụ nữ lớn tuổi.

Examples

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  1. Chào ông, con tên là Nam.

    Hi sir, my name is Nam.

  2. Chào ông, cho con hỏi nhà vệ sinh ở đâu ạ?

    Excuse me, sir, where is the restroom?

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Usage notes
'Con' = self-reference when speaking to grandparent-age people; 'ông' = address for an older man (grandfather-age, or any unknown older man). The pair forms the respectful frame for a young person talking to an elder male. 'Chào ông, con tên là Nam.' = Hi sir, my name is Nam.
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