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Đành phải V (vậy)/ đành V ( vậy)

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Reluctant acceptance — spoken.

Definition

What it means

English

'Đành' (or 'đành phải') marks an action the speaker takes reluctantly — usually because circumstances force them to. The action happens, but the speaker is not happy about it. English speakers reach for 'have to' or 'end up doing', neither of which carries the emotional resignation that 'đành' does. 'Đành phải bỏ thuốc lá' isn't just 'I had to quit smoking' — it's 'I had to give in and quit smoking, against my will'. The structure is flexible: 'đành V' is the basic form, 'đành phải V' adds explicit force, and tacking 'vậy' on the end gives the whole sentence a sigh: 'đành vậy thôi' = 'oh well, that's how it is then'. Mastering 'đành' is what separates students who sound like they're translating word-by-word from students who sound like they're really feeling the situation.

Tiếng Việt

Biểu hiện hành động được thực hiện 1 cách miễn cưỡng, không theo ý muốn của chủ thể

Examples

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  1. Ảnh bị bệnh phổi nên đành bỏ thuốc lá

    He has lung disease so he quit smoking

  2. Tôi đành phải chờ cô ấy vậy

    I'm waiting for her

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Usage notes
'đành phải V' / 'đành V (vậy)' = 'have to (reluctantly) / give in and V.' Marks an action taken against the speaker's preference, often because circumstances force it. 'Ảnh bị bệnh phổi nên đành bỏ thuốc lá' = He has lung disease so he had to give up smoking.

Also in "Modal Verbs — Can, Must, Should, Want"

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